A husband and wife are a big test for each other.

 Shaykh Al-Allaamah Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-Uthaymeen rahimahullaah said:

A man who only sees the bad sides of his wife,and forgets her good sides is just as a woman who forgets all her husband’s good deeds,if she on one occasion does not get her way…..

 Al-Liqaa’ Ash Sharhi pg.28